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Be in the Know about Snapchat

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In early December I first heard of a new smartphone application that was popular with Teens called Snapchat. One goal I have with my blog is to inform youthworkers and parents of what is popular and trending with teens especially when it could be harmful, inappropriate or misused by their teens. With the hustle and Bustle of the Holiday season I did not get a post up about it sooner and I apologize for that.

snapSnapchat is getting more attention every day being highlighted in numerous articles and blogs and even mentioned on the latest episode of Parenthood. This app is basically a picture sharing application but what makes it unique is you can set your pictures to self destruct. Meaning, if I send someone a picture I can set a timer so that once the person who I am sending the picture to opens it, they only have 10 seconds to view it before it is erased from their phone. Sounds fun right? One of the concerns that many people have with this application is that it is directly geared towards sexting.

Even if it is not intended to be used for sexting that is one reputation it has received. Just skim through the reviews in the iTunes App store and you will see comments like, “15 year old male username: ********** looking for 13-18 F dirty or clean.” In fact there are numerous posts in the reviews section like this. People telling their age, sex, basics of what they look like and then asking for other random people to follow them and Snapchat with them. Some say specifically “no nudes” meaning no nude pictures.

Now I am not saying every teen or person using Snapchat is engaging in sexting. Over Christmas I was speaking with a relative and they mentioned how their daughter uses it as a fun way to communicate with their cousins. I also spoke to a group of teens about Snapchat and one teen said “personally, it’s another form of texting. The kind of pics I send is of food, or what I’m doing, what I’m watching, and a bunch of funny faces.” I actually think this is how most teens are using the app, as another fun alternative to texting.

What I am saying is be aware of what apps are on your teens phones and what apps are popular with teens. Be in the Know. Have conversations with them about appropriate behavior and use of the smartphone.

Here are links to several other articles and post related to Snapchat if you would like more information or some tips for discussing this app with your teenager:

NBC Today Show Story from Dec. 4th, 2012 about Snapchat-

A Parents Take on Snapchat via Mashable

Snapchat- Kids Can Send Explicit Pictures that Self Destruct via Parenting Today’s Kids (Good parenting tips in this article)

Cinnamon, Not Just a Spice in Apple Pie.

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Updated April 23rd, 2013: It seems the Cinnamon Challenge is back in the news after an article was published online in Pediatrics journal.  The report said “at least 30 teens nationwide needed medical attention after taking the “challenge” last year.” See the following video from the Today Show for more information and read my blog post written on March 28th, 2012 for my thoughts on this challenge.

When I was in college I remember the “Gallon Challenge” being popular. It is when someone tries to drink a gallon of milk within one hour. Ultimately most people ended up throwing up.  I first heard of the Cinnamon Challenge over a year ago and I associated it as another type of challenge that people were attempting for fun to see “if” they could accomplish it. In fact most of the stories I personally have heard regarding the Cinnamon Challenge has been adults attempting it, not teen.

Like many other teen trends, the media has gotten a hold of this one and is labeling it dangerous. I feel adults working with teens need to be aware of and share the dangerous of the cinnamon challenge with their teens. But I do not feel that this is a scary trend that we need to be overly alarmed over. I actually had no intention of even making a blog post regarding in. But I saw a segment on the Today Show this weekend that I felt made some great points that related to more than just the Cinnamon Challenge.

TODAY: Cinnamon Challenge Raises Fears

Steve Adubato, Ph.D, made several great points related to why teens would even engage in such a challenge. He made the point that teens feel they are superstars waiting to happen and sites like YouTube allow them to have their own reality show of sorts.  Teens feel that they are just one video clip away from becoming a celebrity.  If they can do the challenge better than others or be more outrageous than others they will get more views and in a sense become a viral video star.  I cannot agree more.

One other thought I had while watching this was around the notion that teens are more likely to engage in risky or thrill seeking behavior than adults. I tend to agree with this especially when I look back at my teenage and college years, I can remember taking some crazy risks.  I feel that is a part of why the Cinnamon Challenge has taken off with teens.  It is risky but seems safe enough, therefore more teens are willing to give it a try. Unlike other activities, such as doing drugs or racing cars, the apparent risk is very low.

Tips for Youth Workers:

  • Talk to teens about these types of challenges. Ask them if they would be willing to do it and why. It is a great opportunity to see into how they think and weigh risks.
  •   A Great question/conversation starter off of this idea would be “what is the most risky thing they would be willing to do to become famous?”
  • Ask them what they think of reality TV stars?  What are the positive and negative characteristics of them?

Tips for Parents:

  • Talk to your teens about videos they see on YouTube and ask them if they have or would be willing to try some of the activities. And of course ask why or why not?
  • Don’t go and hide the Cinnamon.
  • Share with them the dangers of the cinnamon challenge.